If you've only got together recently, then Valentine's Day can be difficult. It would be churlish to forget the day (if you plan for this to be a longer term arrangement) and easy to overstep the mark. Flowers are always good, avoiding the red roses for something stunning like these sunflowers. Go large and you will reap the rewards. You might want to check on the hidden meaning flowers before you order them though!  Best to avoid carnations.

 Fragrance is quite tricky, even after you've known each other quite some time (otherwise how do you account for how much Chanel No 5 is bought every Christmas, but you rarely meet a woman wearing it). If you have no other clues on what she likes, then choose something by the name, and we suggest Perfect Day sounds about right for early days of romance. It's also a beautiful fragrance, a modern statement on femininity, intense, fresh yet uncomplicated. Perfect!

How about buying her a gift experience? You might think you don't know her well enough to know what she'd like, so why not pick something a bit off beat, and even something you could go do together. Days to Amaze offer a circus skills half day for two, that will see you flying through the air together, although perhaps not with the greatest of ease. It'll give you something to talk about, and perhaps compare and soothe each others bruises later. 

 For something sweet, but still a unique thought, then how about a box of mini Triple Chocolate Brownies from Sweet Things. These are the ultimate brownie, which we don't anyone who can resist, with their dense, fudgey texture and chunks of milk and white chocolate. Perfect as a sweet gift and not as obvious as a box of choccies. We don't know anyone who wouldn't be partial to a box, or two, of these! 

See yourselves in print, by creating a wonderful photo book from Photo Box. These books are beautiful, you can add in photos that mean the most to the two of you, and your own printed commentary as well. There are hard back and soft back options to choose from, and styles from very contemporary to some soft romantic options. Go with what suits the two of you best! 

You could go one further and put the two of you on the wall! Canvas prints can be produced to any size from any photo of either just your beloved, the two of you, or something you both hold precious. Photobloc can change the colours, add some spot effects, soften the background, you can even add your own text. We think these are great, and you've got plenty of time to organize the perfect one now for Valentine's Day. 

A calendar would not normally be a romantic choice of gift, but these personalized versions ramp up the romance level. It adds in her name, or if you choose the romance one then both your names to a suitable scene for each month. And don't worry, they can start the calendar in any month you like.

Things don't come much more personal than your fingerprints, or those of any children, and now you can have them imprinted into silver jewellery. You get a kit to take the fingerprint impressions and then send them back to be made into jewellery. You need to be organised, this is a beautiful, romantic gift but you can't leave it till the last minute if you want to have the piece back in time for Valentine's Day. 

Just because she's green and cares for everything else, doesn't mean she shouldn't have some time to care for herself. Green People do a beautiful organic home spa kit, which will give her stunning products for herself that don't cost the earth. Recyclable packaging that looks stunning, no air-freighting of anything to make up the kit, and pure, natural, organic ingredients. A gift of love for her, and for the planet.

She probably knows this anyway, but this mug shows the potential effects of global warming when her morning cuppa is added to it. You could throw in some Fairtrade tea or coffee, and some Against the Grain biscuits at the same time. Preferably bringing the whole lot up to her in bed on a tray. Great way to start Valentine's Day. 

You might think that flowers are off the agenda, but we'd head over to Imogen Stone, who offer beautiful Fairtrade Roses. In addition to the Fairtrade conditions of their purchase, Imogen Stone also donate an additional 8% of the purchase price straight back to the farm workers, so things continue to improve. We would call this Valentine's bouquet a win win gift. 

Maybe she would prefer that you spread the love around a bit? Not literally obviously, but by buying a charitable gift. I mean you could go for something like a gift of condoms for an African village from Oxfam Unwrapped. Or a Change the World for 12 months voucher, for a gift that keeps on giving. If she's more into wildlife, then there are great options too from WWF or the RSPB.