Every new mum deserves beautiful flowers to celebrate the safe arrival of the baby, and our favourite online florist is Seranata. This beautiful bouquet is called Tickled Pink, and they have some beautiful choices in blue too, such as Ocean Whisper. Or how about the highly appropriate One Love? Really luxe out the gift with the addition of organic champagne truffles, a bottle of bubbly, a teddy for junior...all kinds of choices available! 

We think every mum deserves diamonds the size of the Koh-i-Noor for her efforts so far! Even if you're not quite at that level, then jewellery is a great way to mark the occasion. You could surprise her with diamonds, or wait for her to choose, but in the meantime we love these gold and silk wrap bracelets for something unique and unusual. Available in pink or blue, with a boy or girl charm as appropriate. And Astley Clarke will deliver it beautifully gift wrapped, so one less thing to worry about! 

We know in the days it is possible that it's going to feel way too much like hardwork to get "properly" dressed, and that there's probably going to be a lot of wandering up and down the landing in the middle of the night. Well, help her to do it in luxurious, effortless style, with these great simple pieces in a silk cashmere mix from Bonsoir. Pull on trousers, cosy cardi-gown, vest and slippers, and you're good to wander the house in style! And yes, baby sick will come out of them! 

How about a real treat for when she manages to grab a moment to herself? Mama Mio Skincare is luxurious and safe, with great blends of essential oils, to help her relax and for the skin to get a treat to. We love the You're Amazing New Mama Kit, with its beautiful scented candle and rich, luxurious body cream. Not to mention the cute little hat for junior! 

Just because she's concerned about the planet doesn't mean you can't send her beautiful flowers. John Lewis now have a really good range of fairtrade flowers and bouquets on offer, so beauty with a conscience. We particularly like these bright and cheerful sunflowers, you can't help but smile at these. If you think plonking these in a vase might be too much effort at the moment the Sunflower Sphere Arrangement, which comes ready to display in it's own vase!

And being ethical doesn't mean missing out on jewellery either! Fifi Bijoux work only with ethically mined gold and white gold, from mines that are environmentally responsible, and with packaging from sustainable resources. All that, and stunning designs too! We love this Cercle pendant, inspired by shells, but also like a modern take on the circle of life.

Wrap her up in ethical style with this Kimono Hoody from Gossypium. As well as being a great style, it's made from fairtrade and organic cotton from Agrocel in India. Add in a pair of foldover trousers, and she's got a perfectly stylish, easy to wear outfit that helps out around the world. Everyone's a winner! 

Perhaps as she becomes a mum, and being the type to be engaged with the wider world, she'll be thinking of the lot of new mums around the world. Well, how about giving her 12 months of knowing she's helping other women grow their own food, get their kids into school, get better healthcare, basically whatever it is they need to free themselves from poverty. The Change the World Gift from Oxfam Unwrapped does all this, and you could get her a gift to go along with this, with Oxfam having one of the widest ranges of fairly traded gifts we've come across. 

Cool mums are not exempt from sleepless nights with a new born, they just cover it up better! And nothing could be better this season than these gorgeous Beam sunglasses from All Saints. She can hide those dark circles and bags behind these, retaining her style and cool air. They're almost worth the broken sleep! 

No twee changing bag for the cool mum, she'll just want something slightly more roomy from her favourite designer. Matches has a whole range of fabulous bags, and we're going to plump for this canvas and patent leather shopper from Pierre Hardy. You could go for all black, or beige with a black trim like this one. Just nothing with pretty prints or "fun" add ons! 

Cool mum may not be impressed by diamonds, but we think she'll be impressed by this. Designed by one of the coolest mums around, Jade Jagger, her famous Kiss pendant has been seen in Vogue, and comes in gold, silver or oxidised sterling silver like this one. Boho chic meets the 70s pop art scene, perfect. Not to mention sealed with a loving kiss!

Just in case Cool Mum hasn't got one already, now is the time to treat her to an iPhone. She can keep up to date with the world, even from inside the baby bubble, whilst organising both their hectic social lives. Still looks cool, still is cool, still perfect for her! Don't forget a super cool case to protect it with as well.